I have been repeatedly saying that ‘Do not fuss over things which are not under your control’ so, I think I should state about the things which are under control… right.  In my opinion, I feel we all have perfect control over our efforts, how and where and when to execute, I can’t guarantee the outcome, it depends on the person and frame of mind, we have a set of personal beliefs and not sure whether we follow all or not or possibly will, we have set of priorities and it depends on your age, we all have different priorities in each phase of life, it keeps changing and never be the same.  We have a set of ideas about how to be presentable, that too keep changing on a different phase of life,  we all are enriched with the virtues like kindness, compassion, care, love, bliss, and we exactly know when to bring out those feelings and emotions, I think it is constant, your virtues comes out and grows with your age, we also, know how to take things personally, we have general ideas about how to lead our life and what would be the ultimate object of life, we all know how to converse with people of a different mindset and what to converse, we have control over all those petite things like what to eat and what should not? Whom should we go out and when? Last but not least we all know which makes us happy and which does not... so hurry up....chase your happiness!